Why helping others first ultimately helps yourself<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cYou can get your own benefit after everyone else also gets something.\u201dThis means:
\u201cIf you want to do something big, try to act for everyone first.\u201d
But for people who don\u2019t understand yet, it may look like:
\u201cYou should hold back your own needs and work hard for everyone.\u201d
If they think like that, they may say:
\u201cOnly great people can do that. I guess I don\u2019t need to.\u201d
So they stop trying and choose small, quick benefits instead.
People who understand think carefully.
They do not decide only by feelings.
They think, \u201cWhat will happen later because of what I do now?\u201d
This way of thinking is not about personality or intelligence.
It is only about whether you can think in that way.
What is important is:
Doing things for others will also help yourself in the end.
But people are weak to immediate, small rewards.
So it is hard to think about bigger benefits in the future.
Not many people understand this.
The difference is simple:
It is just about how you think.
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